Pregnancy/Parenting Notes Travels Yoga & Vedanta Philosophy

A Shopaholic Mom Wonders – How Much Is Too Much?

September 5, 2025
Practicing mindful parenting in Sri Lanka.

The “Problem” of Plenty

As people who can provide for their children, we’re constantly grappling with the question: how much is too much when it comes to things? I believe that’s at the heart of conscious parenting, making intentional choices rather than giving in to excess. From the moment Kalindi was born, there’s been no dearth of clothes, toys and general stuff. I remember thinking, we had enough things to last until she started school. A year and a half later, I know that to be true.

A friend of mine used to lament that her family was plagued by ‘the problem of plenty’. Every time I heard her say that, something inside me would instinctively recoil. I wondered how she could complain about having too much in a world where people struggled for the basics. I’d flinch every time I heard, hoping one day she would see the light and find a solution for her so-called ‘problem’.

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Yoga & Vedanta Philosophy

Draupadi’s Disrobing & Our Dharma Today

August 19, 2025
Draupadi’s disrobing in Mahabharata illustration – Vedanta reflection

Now that I teach Vedanta, many students ask me how I got into it. Most are surprised to know that I didn’t grow up with the stories and mythology of Hinduism. In fact, I grew up in a house where even rituals weren’t given too much importance. Religion was always present, but always in the background. It was quiet in its dignity, accepted and unchallenged.

I believe this gives my teaching a freshness which is what prompted my teacher to encourage me to teach, despite a life lived largely away from the culture and birthplace of Vedanta darshana. My approach to Vedanta is shaped by my approach to literature, where we endeavor to understand ourselves and our lives though the characters we are reading. A student of literature analyses and empathises, and in the process learns how to to think critically about human values and behaviour and to even make allowances for human nature.

Which is why when we started studying the Bhagavad Gita and my teacher told us to put ourselves in Arjuna’s shoes, I slid seamlessly into them. And once I did, the Gita came alive for me.

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Asana Postpartum

Yoga After Motherhood: Moving Through Resistance

July 30, 2025
Yoga after motherhoo

The Choice – Convenience vs Commitment

I attended another weekend yoga workshop in Bellur this weekend. This time I didn’t stay overnight (here’s a short video of what its like to attend an overnight yoga retreat there). I drove down on Saturday and reached in time for the evening session. By the time I got home it was 10 pm. The next morning I returned, starting the journey at 6 am.

Last time I took Kalindi and Animesh with me, but it’s now 15 months postpartum and I feel it’s time to start attending retreats without the necessity of taking my entire household with me. Honestly, I never thought what yoga retreats after childbirth would be. But I instinctively knew I shouldn’t wait for when I’m ready. I will have to coerce myself to remember how wonderfully valuable and transformative these immersions are, and that might me resist the temptation of convenience and remember my commitment.

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Asana Yoga & Vedanta Philosophy

51 Minutes of Contemplation : A Guru Purnima Yoga Class

July 24, 2025
My prenatal yoga practice was a tribute to my gurus.

“Do we have to give a gift to our gurus on Guru Purnima?” Ambika asked me, curious about the guru parampara.

“Some people do,” I said. “But it’s not mandatory.”

Is it possible to thank a guru for all they’ve done? As students what can we do for our gurus? What can we give our guru as a guru purnima offering?

After spending more than a decade within the guru parampara I realise now that the question isn’t what to give our gurus, the question is how do we honor our gurus?

Perhaps by living our lives in service to the words, the ideas, the movement and the philosophies they have taught us so that they live on in our bodies, minds and consciousness, and the guru parampara remains an unbroken chain. Continue Reading

Books Postpartum Pregnancy/Parenting Notes Wellness

On the Asceticism of Motherhood: Agi Wittich

July 12, 2025
Yoga Readers Book Club reading Geeta Iyengar’s Yoga: A Gem for Women

How I Found Agi Wittich

I first came across Agi Wittich and her work on Facebook. I saw a post about ‘Yoga Readers‘ — an online book club that reads and discusses books on yoga. Agi is unique in that she brings structure and academic rigor to reading yoga, a direct result of her extensive work in academia. In a world where yoga is a popular buzzword and just about everyone claims to be a teacher or expert, I find her approach refreshing—it compels me to think about my postpartum yoga practice and what it means to me as a woman, mother and yoga teacher.

It was in one of these meetings that Agi said, “As a woman, I’m in postpartum until I’m in another phase of a woman’s life.” As someone who had crossed the one-year postpartum mark, I was intrigued by this statement. It made me question the idea of ‘normal’ that women in postpartum often think about. I often wonder if I’m irrevocably changed and should put the past version of me to rest. I decided to ask Agi to speak with me about her experience and thoughts on motherhood and postpartum as a yoga teacher. I was sure that, just like her book club meetings, our conversation would also be remarkable and insightful.

Yoga as a Tool for Postpartum Presence

Agi’s statement stems from her study of Yoga: A Gem for Women, Geeta Iyengar’s seminal book — the first book to focus on yoga primarily for women. In the book, Geeta details how yoga can benefit women in different phases of life (menstruation, pregnancy, postpartum, menopause) and provides detailed yoga sequences for each phase, including postpartum yoga practice. She speaks from a point of kindness and compassion for a woman’s changing body, focusing on nurturing women through these phases for long-term health and happiness. I love what this means for the yoga practice — that it’s not a static sequence of asanas that limbs execute day after day. Rather, it’s a practice that curves and bends and twists with us as we navigate what it means to live and breathe and interact with the world, and have a body that is receptive to life.

That our practice serves our bodies and not the other way around.

The Asceticism of Motherhood

Agi also put into words an experience me and other mothers know intimately – the ‘asceticism’ of motherhood. As our babies start to explore the world, they grab and pull at our earrings, our hair, our jewellery, and our clothes. Mothers find themselves removing anything that ‘gets in the way’ (of our babies, but also our lives). This process of shedding the unnecessary goes beyond just the physical and also reflects in out emotional landscape — we let go of relationships, thought patterns, even just things that can no longer be adjusted to the complexity of our new lives. (Postpartum is often about reassessing and then reclaiming these things — perhaps discarding them was a momentary need and they are useful after all.) In a strange way, this act of asceticism helped me assert myself  — I would take for myself what served me and leave the rest to its destiny.

Why These Conversations Matter

My conversation with Agi helped me see my postpartum phase not as a recovery period, but as a lived, ongoing practice in its own right. Motherhood—like yoga—needs presence, flexibility, and a willingness to keep evolving. The postpartum phase doesn’t have a fixed end point, it’s a stop on the journey. These conversations help me approach this phase without losing myself, and that’s why I share them—because if listening to others helps me, then it might help you too.

Agi Wittich and postpartum yoga practice.

Agi Wittich and postpartum yoga practice.

I recently also had a conversation with Ashtanga yoga teacher Mariela Cruz about her experience with motherhood and yoga. You can read it here.

Books Wellness

Butter by Asako Yuzuki (An Unusual Book Review)

June 30, 2025
Body positivity versus health and fitness journey reflections.

Butter, Body Positivity & Balance

I recently finished reading Butter by Asako Yuzuki. Originally in Japanese, it is inspired by the true story of a woman accused of murdering several men by seducing them through delectable, home-cooked, gourmet food. Rika Machida is a journalist investigating the case. She manages to get an interview with the enigmatic Manako Kajii, the woman accused of these crimes, who is on death row. As Rika digs deeper and gets increasingly entangled in Kajii’s narrative, she’s forced to confront her own beliefs about beauty, desire and gender roles. The book explores themes of femininity, power, body image, and how society polices women’s relationships with food, pleasure, and autonomy. It challenges us to ask ourselves: are we truly free? And this question hit me hard because it helped me articulate something complex and uncomfortable about what the body positivity movement has become.

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Pregnancy/Parenting Notes Prenatal

Acupuncture for Fertility: How It Can Help Prepare Your Body for Pregnancy

June 15, 2025
Acupuncture for fertility is an effective alternative healing modality.

Infertility drives women to despair. It changes how you perceive yourself and changes your world view. All of a sudden you’re obsessed with how to ‘fix’ your body. This often leads to unhealthy thought patterns, which lead to unhealthy decisions – which can change the trajectory of your life. This is when my practice of yoga, meditation, journaling helped me centre myself and act from a space of intention, rather than defeat and despair.

I was reluctant to over-medicate my body and I inherently believe in alternative therapy, which is probably why I decided to try holistic healing modalities before throwing in the towel and schedule an IVF appointment.

One of the more interesting modalities I discovered was acupuncture, a part of TCM – Traditional Chinese Medicine. I’ve always seen acupuncture as an exotic treatment. To be honest, I didn’t know much about it until I heard about it in a podcast about conception.

I discovered Dr. Beena Mathew on the internet and found out we had SVYASA in common. During our first appointment she asked me detailed questions about my lifestyle, examined my medical reports and infused me with the kind of positivity only holistic health practitioners can.

Now that the journey is behind me, I decided to reach out to Dr. Beena with a few questions about how acupuncture can support women who are trying to conceive.

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Books Pregnancy/Parenting Notes

Ashtanga Teacher Mariela Cruz on Yoga and Motherhood

May 24, 2025
The perfect capture of yoga and motherhood.

When I was pregnant with Kalindi I experienced a sense of universal sisterhood. Suddenly women could relate to me, even women who had never been pregnant. Suddenly everyone cared about my comfort – from messages on Instagram to doing whatever possible to make me comfortable in restaurants and other public spaces.  For my part I appreciated this experienced, and looked for stories of other women who could help me approach this beautiful and special time in a healthy and balanced way. Most pregnant women do the same.

In particular I wanted stories from other yogis. How did they approach their practice when they were pregnant. What was the impact this experience had on their pregnancy and later motherhood. Was their practice changed forever? Does the body ever go back to the familiar shapes and contours of ‘before’? Although I found a lot of information on the internet, there was surprisingly little about the pregnant yogi’s experience. I decided to change that.

I came across Mariela Cruz’s story in a book called Yoga Sadhana for Mothers (which I’ve reviewed in this post.) Her story was intense, she was in and out of pregnancies for 21 years…

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Pregnancy/Parenting Notes

Are Inversions Safe During Pregnancy?

May 16, 2025
I stayed active throughout my pregnancy, going for long hikes, practicing inversions and eating healthy.

Inversions During Pregnancy: What You Need to Know

When I started yoga I looked at the headstand with the longing of a noob. It seemed like an impossible pose and the pinnacle of physical acumen. I did my first headstand during my YIC at SVYASA, after about three years of yoga practice. Since then I’ve come a long way – progressively getting stronger and more confident in my practice. I didn’t know then that inversions like the sirsasana and sarvangasana would become the backbone of my prenatal yoga practice, but they did and today I teach these to other expecting mothers.

So should you practice inversions during pregnancy? The short answer is yes, but read on for all the details on when, how, and why they might work for you

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Postpartum Pregnancy/Parenting Notes Wellness

Postpartum Healing with Acupuncture: Boost Energy, Balance Hormones, and Sleep Better Naturally

April 29, 2025

As a yoga teacher I knew that after I had a baby, I would have to be extra careful with the healing process. To rush to ‘get back’ could lead to nagging aches, chronic weakness, and a disconnect from my practice. But simply waiting for things to sort themselves out was also risky — a slow drift away from the strength and vitality I had worked so hard to build.

To answer my queries I caught up Dr. Shruthi Rao at the Bodhsara Wellness and Salt Studio. Our conversation focused on the benefits of acupuncture for postpartum women. From hormone support and emotional balance to better sleep, lactation, and pelvic healing — Dr. Shruthi Rao breaks it down beautifully.

Keep reading to learn what happens in a typical session, how it complements pelvic floor therapy, and how you can begin at home.

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