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Yoga: A Gem for Women (Book Review)

November 19, 2025
Supta Baddhakonasana from Yoga: A Gem for Women

If you’re a yoga practitioner, chances are you’ve come across Yoga: A Gem for Women.  It’s a book that most women yoga practitioners turn to, even if they are from other lineages.

There’s no single comprehensive resource that helps women understand how yoga can support fertility, pregnancy, postpartum recovery, and beyond. Reading this book when I was exploring my own health and trying to find solutions changed this book for me. It gave me a softer view of a woman’s health and taught me to  gave me a holistic view of how yoga nurtures women through all of it.

If you’ve followed my fitness journey, you know the long story of my unexplained infertility. I’ve spoken extensively about how yoga and other alternative healing methodologies helped me during that time. That’s when I turned to Yoga: A Gem for Women again, hoping to find a solution and some solace.

When Agi Wittich started a book club to read Gem again, I decided this was the perfect time to read the book cover to cover, something I hadn’t done before. Agi, herself a yoga practitioner, has also been influenced deeply by Geeta Iyengar’s teachings. You can watch our conversation about her pregnancy and postpartum experience, and the influence of yoga on her life.

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Postpartum Pregnancy/Parenting Notes RIMYI Experiences Wellness

The Pigeon

November 7, 2025
A pigeon, symbolizing motherhood and calm reflection.

There’s a pigeon who has laid eggs outside the window of my bathroom. Every time I open the door of the bathroom, no matter how quietly, she gets disturbed. I feel bad, acutely. When I was shown into this room Dheeraj told me they noticed the eggs for the first time when they came back from Diwali break, and they didn’t have the heart to push them out. Every time the pigeon flutters in alarm and walks away from her eggs I feel an ache in my heart. I know how the pigeon feels. I don’t want to be responsible for its fear, I want it to know her eggs are safe.

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Books Postpartum RIMYI Experiences

Back to the Mothership – RIMYI After 7 Years

November 6, 2025

Back to the Source

In 2019, on my last trip to the Iyengar Yoga institute in Pune, I would have never thought it would take me 6 years to come back to the Iyengar institute in Pune. Over the years many visitors I was in touch with have told me about the changes – there’s a new entrance, even a waiting area. The old order (Pandurang Sir), has given way to the new.

A pandemic and a baby later, here I am, back in Pune’s verdant climes awaiting the commencement of the weekend workshop at the Iyengar Yoga Institute in Pune.

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Asana Postpartum

Durga’s Strength: A Navratri Reflection on Yoga Practice

September 30, 2025
A picture a student sent to me depicting Durga in all her glory.

The Various Seasons of Yoga

I’d love to say that now, when my daughter is one and a half, I have a fixed routine for yoga practice. Pre-pregnancy I would wake up at 4.30 to practice. Now those days seem like ancient history. Today my days are a disorganised mix of teaching, practice, working out, trying to get a full night’s sleep, writing, school runs…I’m grateful I can practice with some regularity, but often pine for those days when I turned in at 9 and woke up at 4.30, ready to give my practice my all.

I have started attending RIMYI online classes again, a practice that feels especially grounding during Navratri. More often then I’d like, I end up following along with the pre-recorded Iyengar yoga sessions. I’d love to say it’s an hour and a half I have to myself, a time when I can immerse myself in the yoga. But the truth is Kalindi often joins me on the mat, and wants to type on the keyboard or play with the TV remote. She clings to my legs when I’m in downward dog, or lies down on the mat, making me want to cuddle with her. Often I find myself speeding through a class to avoid interruptions.

This morning’s class was a restorative session, and at the end of the class when we were lying in supta baddhakonasana with our arms stretched out and chests wide open, Raya spoke about Navratri, drawing our attention to Durga’s strength. What he said was perhaps the most relevant thing I’ve heard in a long time.

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Asana Postpartum Pregnancy/Parenting Notes Prenatal Wellness

Yoga Teacher Rosa Santana on Supporting Mothers and Other Insights

September 23, 2025
Beautiful Rosa with her beautiful daughters.

Motherhood and Yoga: Lessons from Rosa Santana

In my continuing quest to understand motherhood and become a better-informed parent, I’ve been reaching out to yoga teachers who can shed light on this path for me. Recently, I had an illuminating conversation with Rosa Santana, a mother of three daughters and a lifelong yoga practitioner.

“You never stop being a mother,” she says. Her own journey is inspiring—she was a gym rat long before she stepped into yoga, and she took her first yoga class while six months pregnant. She admits it was a terrible experience at the time. Up until then, she had taught step aerobics, which gave her fitness discipline but didn’t prepare her body for the nuances of pregnancy.

My Key Takeaways From My Conversation with Rosa

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Pregnancy/Parenting Notes Travels Yoga & Vedanta Philosophy

A Shopaholic Mom Wonders – How Much Is Too Much?

September 5, 2025
Practicing mindful parenting in Sri Lanka.

The “Problem” of Plenty

As people who can provide for their children, we’re constantly grappling with the question: how much is too much when it comes to things? I believe that’s at the heart of conscious parenting, making intentional choices rather than giving in to excess. From the moment Kalindi was born, there’s been no dearth of clothes, toys and general stuff. I remember thinking, we had enough things to last until she started school. A year and a half later, I know that to be true.

A friend of mine used to lament that her family was plagued by ‘the problem of plenty’. Every time I heard her say that, something inside me would instinctively recoil. I wondered how she could complain about having too much in a world where people struggled for the basics. I’d flinch every time I heard, hoping one day she would see the light and find a solution for her so-called ‘problem’.

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Asana Postpartum

Yoga After Motherhood: Moving Through Resistance

July 30, 2025
Yoga after motherhoo

The Choice – Convenience vs Commitment

I attended another weekend yoga workshop in Bellur this weekend. This time I didn’t stay overnight (here’s a short video of what its like to attend an overnight yoga retreat there). I drove down on Saturday and reached in time for the evening session. By the time I got home it was 10 pm. The next morning I returned, starting the journey at 6 am.

Last time I took Kalindi and Animesh with me, but it’s now 15 months postpartum and I feel it’s time to start attending retreats without the necessity of taking my entire household with me. Honestly, I never thought what yoga retreats after childbirth would be. But I instinctively knew I shouldn’t wait for when I’m ready. I will have to coerce myself to remember how wonderfully valuable and transformative these immersions are, and that might me resist the temptation of convenience and remember my commitment.

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Books Postpartum Pregnancy/Parenting Notes Wellness

On the Asceticism of Motherhood: Agi Wittich

July 12, 2025
Yoga Readers Book Club reading Geeta Iyengar’s Yoga: A Gem for Women

How I Found Agi Wittich

I first came across Agi Wittich and her work on Facebook. I saw a post about ‘Yoga Readers‘ — an online book club that reads and discusses books on yoga. Agi is unique in that she brings structure and academic rigor to reading yoga, a direct result of her extensive work in academia. In a world where yoga is a popular buzzword and just about everyone claims to be a teacher or expert, I find her approach refreshing—it compels me to think about my postpartum yoga practice and what it means to me as a woman, mother and yoga teacher.

It was in one of these meetings that Agi said, “As a woman, I’m in postpartum until I’m in another phase of a woman’s life.” As someone who had crossed the one-year postpartum mark, I was intrigued by this statement. It made me question the idea of ‘normal’ that women in postpartum often think about. I often wonder if I’m irrevocably changed and should put the past version of me to rest. I decided to ask Agi to speak with me about her experience and thoughts on motherhood and postpartum as a yoga teacher. I was sure that, just like her book club meetings, our conversation would also be remarkable and insightful.

Yoga as a Tool for Postpartum Presence

Agi’s statement stems from her study of Yoga: A Gem for Women, Geeta Iyengar’s seminal book — the first book to focus on yoga primarily for women. In the book, Geeta details how yoga can benefit women in different phases of life (menstruation, pregnancy, postpartum, menopause) and provides detailed yoga sequences for each phase, including postpartum yoga practice. She speaks from a point of kindness and compassion for a woman’s changing body, focusing on nurturing women through these phases for long-term health and happiness. I love what this means for the yoga practice — that it’s not a static sequence of asanas that limbs execute day after day. Rather, it’s a practice that curves and bends and twists with us as we navigate what it means to live and breathe and interact with the world, and have a body that is receptive to life.

That our practice serves our bodies and not the other way around.

The Asceticism of Motherhood

Agi also put into words an experience me and other mothers know intimately – the ‘asceticism’ of motherhood. As our babies start to explore the world, they grab and pull at our earrings, our hair, our jewellery, and our clothes. Mothers find themselves removing anything that ‘gets in the way’ (of our babies, but also our lives). This process of shedding the unnecessary goes beyond just the physical and also reflects in out emotional landscape — we let go of relationships, thought patterns, even just things that can no longer be adjusted to the complexity of our new lives. (Postpartum is often about reassessing and then reclaiming these things — perhaps discarding them was a momentary need and they are useful after all.) In a strange way, this act of asceticism helped me assert myself  — I would take for myself what served me and leave the rest to its destiny.

Why These Conversations Matter

My conversation with Agi helped me see my postpartum phase not as a recovery period, but as a lived, ongoing practice in its own right. Motherhood—like yoga—needs presence, flexibility, and a willingness to keep evolving. The postpartum phase doesn’t have a fixed end point, it’s a stop on the journey. These conversations help me approach this phase without losing myself, and that’s why I share them—because if listening to others helps me, then it might help you too.

Agi Wittich and postpartum yoga practice.

Agi Wittich and postpartum yoga practice.

I recently also had a conversation with Ashtanga yoga teacher Mariela Cruz about her experience with motherhood and yoga. You can read it here.

Pregnancy/Parenting Notes Prenatal

Acupuncture for Fertility: How It Can Help Prepare Your Body for Pregnancy

June 15, 2025
Acupuncture for fertility is an effective alternative healing modality.

Infertility drives women to despair. It changes how you perceive yourself and changes your world view. All of a sudden you’re obsessed with how to ‘fix’ your body. This often leads to unhealthy thought patterns, which lead to unhealthy decisions – which can change the trajectory of your life. This is when my practice of yoga, meditation, journaling helped me centre myself and act from a space of intention, rather than defeat and despair.

I was reluctant to over-medicate my body and I inherently believe in alternative therapy, which is probably why I decided to try holistic healing modalities before throwing in the towel and schedule an IVF appointment.

One of the more interesting modalities I discovered was acupuncture, a part of TCM – Traditional Chinese Medicine. I’ve always seen acupuncture as an exotic treatment. To be honest, I didn’t know much about it until I heard about it in a podcast about conception.

I discovered Dr. Beena Mathew on the internet and found out we had SVYASA in common. During our first appointment she asked me detailed questions about my lifestyle, examined my medical reports and infused me with the kind of positivity only holistic health practitioners can.

Now that the journey is behind me, I decided to reach out to Dr. Beena with a few questions about how acupuncture can support women who are trying to conceive.

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Books Pregnancy/Parenting Notes

Ashtanga Teacher Mariela Cruz on Yoga and Motherhood

May 24, 2025
The perfect capture of yoga and motherhood.

When I was pregnant with Kalindi I experienced a sense of universal sisterhood. Suddenly women could relate to me, even women who had never been pregnant. Suddenly everyone cared about my comfort – from messages on Instagram to doing whatever possible to make me comfortable in restaurants and other public spaces.  For my part I appreciated this experienced, and looked for stories of other women who could help me approach this beautiful and special time in a healthy and balanced way. Most pregnant women do the same.

In particular I wanted stories from other yogis. How did they approach their practice when they were pregnant. What was the impact this experience had on their pregnancy and later motherhood. Was their practice changed forever? Does the body ever go back to the familiar shapes and contours of ‘before’? Although I found a lot of information on the internet, there was surprisingly little about the pregnant yogi’s experience. I decided to change that.

I came across Mariela Cruz’s story in a book called Yoga Sadhana for Mothers (which I’ve reviewed in this post.) Her story was intense, she was in and out of pregnancies for 21 years…

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